This one will be about the seven signs that God is exposing the narcissist in your life. Before we even start the topic, you have to understand that when dealing with a narcissist, it all goes back to the Garden of Eden. The first narcissist on Earth was Satan himself. So, when you’re dealing with a narcissist, you’re dealing with a satanic, demonic spirit working through someone. That spirit is working through them to get to you, to take you out.
Many people right now are in jail, prison, or even the grave because they allowed this demonic spirit to provoke them to react or do things they shouldn’t have. You must understand the smear campaigns and how narcissists manipulate people to make you seem like a bad person. Narcissists love getting everyone to take their side. It’s all a game.
1. When Your Reaction to Their Abuse is a Bigger Problem
Number one: when your reaction to their abuse or toxic behavior is considered a bigger problem than the abuse itself, that’s a sign that God is trying to expose the narcissist in someone. The Bible says in Corinthians, “Do not be unequally yoked.” Allowing yourself to be unequally yoked with an individual, particularly in relationships, can lead to problems. While this topic is geared towards relationships, it definitely applies to friends and family as well.
This is why the Bible advises waiting until marriage to have intercourse. If you’re jumping from relationship to relationship, forming soul ties with different women or men, it can cause significant problems in your life. You allow demons to come in, and when you try to leave the relationship, it isn’t easy because you’ve developed a soul tie. If you do leave, and a few months later you find yourself back with that person, even though you know they aren’t good for you, that’s the soul tie working. Many people ask me about soul ties.
I have a topic on this, but most importantly, it requires praying and fasting. So, that is the number one sign: when your reaction to their toxic and abusive behavior is considered a bigger problem than the abuse itself, God is trying to expose the narcissist in your life. When God gives you warnings about someone, you should heed them because warning always comes before destruction. Before your life is destroyed or falls into ruin that’s what the Devil comes to do, and that’s what the narcissist comes to do; it’s very similar. God will always warn you. God has a lot of mercy and grace upon us, but eventually, that grace runs out.
2. The Narcissist Hates Being Alone
Number two: the narcissist hates being alone because the demonic spirit within them feeds off your energy. The attacks will be worse when you are seeking God. Demons in individuals feed off your energy; they hate seeing you happy and love bringing you down because that’s like food to them. If you ever find yourself happy or things are going well, and then a narcissist whether a family member, friend, or partner enters your life and starts bringing you down, it’s because they cannot stand seeing you in a positive state.
There is even a verse in the Book of Proverbs that says, “The wicked cannot sleep unless they cause someone to fall.” This is how demons operate; they have to bring you down to their level. They get happy when they see you cry, feel sad, or become depressed. When they see you in despair, the demon within them is delighted. We are not wrestling against individuals; as the Bible says, “We do not wrestle against flesh and blood but against principalities and spiritual wickedness in high places.” You are dealing with a spirit within a person.
3. The Narcissist Hates Being Ignored
Number three: take heed to God’s warnings about the narcissist in your life and cut them off; the demonic spirit gets triggered when they are ignored. This is a very key sign. When you start heeding God’s warnings and understand that this person is not meant for you, you might try to make peace with them or rationalize with them, but the narcissist doesn’t want that.
When under a satanic spirit like narcissism, one gets a sense of power, albeit a false one. This is why many people gravitate toward them it’s a false sense of power. But once you have discernment, you can see through them; they are really insecure and spiritually weak. Satan rewards those who serve him with carnal things, and material things, as long as they do his will. But when a narcissist fails to destroy you, they get upset. They might make fake pages to stalk you online, create fake phone numbers, or even contact you via email just to provoke you. It’s all a tactic to get under your skin.
4. They Thrive on Chaos and Manipulation
Number four: you can’t make peace or rationalize with a narcissist because they thrive on manipulation, which is a form of witchcraft, and chaos. Witchcraft comes in many forms, and when someone is constantly manipulative and causing chaos, you can never make peace with them. There is no love, light, or potential for resolution in the relationship. If you can’t come up with solutions to problems in a relationship—whether it’s family, friendship, or a romantic partnership—then what is the relationship for? That’s a sign from God that it’s time to pack your bags and move on. The Bible also says in 1 Samuel 15:23, “Rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft.” People who are rebellious towards God and thrive on manipulation are essentially operating under witchcraft.
5. They Hate Rebuke and Criticism
Number five: they hate anyone who disagrees with them and are reckless and shady. A narcissist is all about control and hates rebuke and criticism. They operate like a cult leader, always in control and always resistant to criticism. They do not want anyone to point out their flaws, and if someone tries to do so, they become defensive and hostile. This is because they are operating under a spirit that thrives on manipulation and deception.
6. They Twist God’s Words
Number six: a narcissist twists God’s words to fit their sinful desires and agenda. They use the Bible to tear others down and for manipulation to serve their benefit. Narcissists, especially those with religious tendencies, might twist scripture to justify their actions or to control and dominate others. This is especially common when it comes to lust and power. They use verses out of context to rule over others and tear them down rather than to build them up. Discernment is key in recognizing this behavior, especially since many religious narcissists occupy high-ranking positions in churches.
7. They Are Compulsive Liars
Number seven: you will catch narcissists lying all the time because they are compulsive liars. Proverbs 13:5 says, “The righteous hate lying,” so it stands that the opposite those who are wicked love lying. Narcissists cannot stop lying; they lie for their benefit and gain, and to maintain control over others. They lie even about insignificant things because it’s their nature. As the Bible says, Satan is the “father of lies,” and anyone operating under the narcissistic spirit lies compulsively. If you are around such people, God will open your eyes and grant you discernment to see through them.
These are the seven signs that God is exposing the narcissist in your life. I hope this topic edifies you. Remember to seek God’s kingdom daily and His righteousness and all things will be added unto you.
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